But first, forgive yourself

You, yes you, gone through hills and trenches,fought the hardest battles, dissapointments,broken hopes BUT still, still your living. Breathing. Making plans for today and tomorrow.Dreaming your future.Achieving your goals. 

You are doing your best and still feel like it is the hardest? Watching motivational clips,reading articles to build personality,trying to make everyone happy and smiling through pain. 

You have gone through all these drama but still, when you have this little downfall,why is it so hard to “forgive” yourself? You keep thinking what went wrong ,where and why. You keep praying you should not have said that, seen that and done that.

Love yourself.Please do.But first, forgive yourself.And it is certainly not excuses, toleration or pardon.It is the ultimate feeling of letting all the venom faded away.The tranquility you get from forgiveness will light up your soul.And your palm-sized heart.And you will eventually start loving every single entity. And beyond. 

What if he asks for your nudes

Dear Girls, 

When one day the guy in your dreams comes to your world and shows affection and asks for your hand , you, say yes and imagine the whole universe revolving around both of you. Things are just perfect. Facing ups and downs together.Planning the future ahead.

But if that prince charming asks for your nudes maybe begs for them what would you do? If you say No, he will suggest that you have trust issues, he will ask isn’t it better than looking at other girls’ nudes? You do not want to lose him at all. Do you? You question his desires. But trust , proving your trust is way more important. Isn’t it? 

This is with all my love to those beautiful souls, never share your nudes with anyone.The boy will take the upperhand in the relationship. Threatening you, making you regret, making you curse him.He won’t be your happy pill anymore. You will tolerate for the sake of your face.But you will suffer.

When things are unbearable for you and you breakup , next day, you will be the hot topic of the Internet.Though it is your natural body which million of other women own, though men who hunt for your nudes have seen many more naked female bodies , the mentally retards will still ask for the link, sharing it and making posts. 

So please, have faith in yourself.Believe in yourself.Respect yourself.Be intellectual enough to forsee the consequences.Amen.

Why we should really love ALL

At the very moment you are reading this, hundreds of infants are born, thousands of couples make love and millions of last breaths feed the living. What is this cycle of life and death? Are we at a beginning or an ending? People who come to your life, the places and faces that feel so familiar at the very first encounter, all the deja vus you had through out your life.Got any explanation? But wait, we live this one life, most probably 70 or 80 years in an average, maybe less maybe more, and why would we waste it and mess our brains thinking about it? Live,Love,Laugh ! Isn’t it so ? YOLO.

 But I like to believe in reincarnation. I see it as a “peace” factor.The vagabond in the street you glared at might have been your father in one birth, the ant you stamped on might have been your sibling in one birth, the victims that are killed by ISIS might have been their lovers in one birth etc. etc. Crazy isn’t it? We are one family. Connected internally with every single entity. Don’t you think the world will solve most of its problems if it sees the things this way? To believe it or not doesn’t it make you curious? Racism, Sexism, Ageism,Classism,Ableism… All the isms should not be there in the first place. Cause simply each one of you have been in each others life.Some day. Some time.Some where.